It’s every parent’s worst nightmare having to hand over the keys to the car. It’s every teen’s dream of learning how to drive. Teenagers eagerly await the day when they can walk into a local DMV and take their driving test. It’s a right of passage and a one way ticket to freedom.
A passing scole is the ultimate goal, but its imperative for parents and guardians to take the time to safely teach their teen how to drive prior to the examination. Since we know your teen is ready to get behind the wheel, here are a list of tips for parents who are teaching their driving enthusiasts how to take on the open road.
Start with a tour of the car
In order to operate such heavy machinery, it’s important for teens to familiarize themselves with the vehicle. Take the time initially to demonstrate the basic operations of your vehicle. Start with something as simple as adjusting the driver seats to pointing out the warning signs on the dashboard.
These little details will help your new driver feel more comfortable starting out. Here are a few more functions to cover when teaching your teen how to drive:
- Mirror adjustments
- Wipers
- Headlight functions
- Turn signals
- Starting/turning off the engine
- Air bags and seat belts
This is also a perfect opportunity to show your teen where the most important papers are located. This includes the vehicle registration, insurance, and car manual, aka the holy grail in case an accident or emergency were to happen.
Location, location, location
Fear will set in the moment you watch your teen sit down in the driver seat. Before you let that wave of terror overcome you, find a location that is secluded. An empty parking lot is the perfect setting to practice driving, especially during off hours of the day. You can even set up obstacles for your new driver to practice.
Once you land on an ideal location, take a breather. It might take several hours and a few trips to this location before your teen gets the hang of it, but choosing a safe location is the best way for your teen to learn how to drive.
Have your teen take note of their surroundings. Make sure they stay aware of the lines, trees, or whatever obstacles are present. Open space is your friend for safe teaching and patience, of course.
Low speed limit is key when learning how to drive
Once your teen becomes acquainted with the operations of your car, it’s time to take them to the streets. Keep safety in mind by choosing roads that maintain a slower speed limit or have little to no congestion. They might be willing and able to take on the big leagues, but at the beginning it’s crucial to start small.
Tip: Use this time to discuss the reasons for slower driving. Heavy traffic, poor weather conditions, or pedestrian-filled areas are all reasons to reduce speed and stay cautious.
Take a ride on the highway (the safe way)
By the time your teen gets comfortable behind the wheel, they’ll have the need for speed. It’s okay to resent this part of the process, but there is a way to keep things safe while teaching your teen how to drive on a highway for the first time.
Present a calm attitude during this big step. The worst thing you could do is add insult to injury. Whether they show it or act all cool, it’s likely your teen is a bit anxious about entering a multi-lane highway as well. Reassure your teen that they have the skills and confidence to drive safely no matter where they drive.
Tips to consider for safe driving:
- Keep in the right hand lane in case your teen needs to pull off the road
- Mention blind spots. If you have a newer vehicle, blind spot detection will help your teen stay aware of nearby traffic.
- Prepare your new driver for higher speeds and longer distances
- Stay cautious of traffic stopping and allow for enough distance between you and the vehicle ahead of you. Check out this video on safe distances while driving:
When is my teen ready to drive alone?
Safe practice makes perfect. Taking these steps to ensure your teen has enough practice will build your confidence in trusting them on the road. With drivers under the age of 20 making up the largest percentage of distracted drivers, it’s important to practice safe driving habits in front of your new driver. Remember to wear your seatbelt, stay off your phone, and teach them to keep their focus on the road at all times.
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